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Let me ask you a question- How well do you know your spouse? I mean, really know them- the flirty, deep, and fun questions: their regrets, passions, likes, dislikes, trauma, dreams and greatest desires?I don't say that to destabilize your relationship with your partner, I am simply trying to point out a part for improvement, something that needs to be fortified if you hope to get through not just the good times, but also the bad ones.Fortunately, there's a pretty easy way to strengthen your bond. And, I have to say, it's a lot of fun (even if it can get heavy sometimes).Think so deep: I mean, have you deeply, really, truly, asked the best questions to get to know them as a person? When was the last time you had a significant conversation with your spouse? An open and honest talk can help bring you closer together by building trust, mutual understanding and compassion. When you converse with your partner, you can easily know their strength and weakness.Allowing yourselves to be vulnerable, by practicing active and empathetic listening, also tends to reveal a lot about your partner's character, their values, their past and their visions for the future. It's an opportunity to learn more about your partner and ultimately, more about yourself.I was a victim of the "How-Trap." The How Trap is when you are stuck only asking, "How are you doing?" "How are you?" and nothing more. In the How-Trap, you get caught up in day-to-day activities and check-ins. Put simply as: I don't want to know just how you are; I don't want to know just how your day was, I want to know who you are! Let me tell you a SECRET- You know you are in the How Trap if: Most of your questions you ask your spouse start with "how." Like: -"How are you today?" -"How was your day at work?" -"How are the kids?" or even, "how was your journey?"These questions only touch the surface. When my partner and I get busy, we can go days without asking questions beyond logistics-type questions. We see each other at the end of the day and ask, "How was your day at work?" We went through what we did and what transpired. We talk about plans for the weekend and fill in from friends we saw on social media.In the book, "Rekindle the Fire," the questions are categorized into seven different sets: -80 Flirty Questions to ask your Lover/ Partner.-50 Dig a Little Deeper Questions for Couples.-50 Fun Questions for Couples to Ask each other.-20 Silly Questions to Ask Each Other.-150 Intimate Questions for Couples to rekindle the lost Fire!-100 Deep Conversation Starters for building Relationships for Couples.-50 Romantic Questions for Couples to Ask With each set of questions a little more personal than the last, you will have a swell time with your partner. You'll take turns with your spouse asking these penetrating questions, and both of you answering the questions. It's essential NOT to skip the questions, even if you know the answer to them. Keep in mind; your vulnerabilities will bring you guys closer. The point of these questions is to have nurtured, escalating, and reciprocal self-disclosure. Take time having both of you answer the questions and honestly listen to the answers without judging.Stare in your partner's eyes for 3-4 minutes. If you take the time to look into your partner's eyes, it'll be a unique finish to your round of questions! Just make sure to blink... otherwise, that's just a little bit creepy!Procrastinate NOT! Click the "Order Button" to get your copy right away...
